NUNTAKNA LAMLAK - 3

NAUPANGTE SIAT THEIHNA

A thupi lo a i ngaihsutte pen a thupi lo taktak zong hi lo, a thupina i theihloh man hi thei hi. ‘Ngaihsut taak kei,’ ‘thupi kei lua’ i cihte hangin bawlphat theihloh siatna lian hong tung thei hi. Mi a pilna leh siamna a san semsem leh naupang kep a kisapna, a manphatna leh mailam huna haksatna tung ding tampi a vengsak ahihna thei uh a, khuasunga khahzau gawp lauhuaina phawk uh hi. Naupangte gitloh theihna pawlkhat en dih ni:

1. Innkuansung nuntakzia (family environment) : Naupang in nuntak khuasakzia, pau leh a kisam khempeuh a sin masakna penpenin innkuan sung pan ahi hi. A innkuanpihte in a sinsakna bangbang pen ahi ding mah sa khin pah hi. A pau theih cilin kam hoih lo tuamtuam a kisinsak leh tuate zang paisuak hi. Zu zuakna inn pana khangkhiate in teengta kineihna na lengah zu zuakin pang pah uh a, Pasian thu tawh a kimakaihte in innkuan thunget khopna khawng nei pah uh hi.

2. Nek le tak haksatna (economic problems) : Nek le dawn, sum le pai haksat luatna hangin mi tampi kisia hi. Nu leh pate in tate tungah zawnna (poverty) pen a sia lama zat hetloh ding sinsak kisam hi. Mi pawlkhat sum le pai neihloh manin amau pumpi mahmah a zuak, ahih kei leh Pasian leh kumpi’ deihloh zatui zaha, khamtheih guihtheih a zuak peuh om thei hi. Ei neih tawh kituak a gamtat sinsak a, neih phakloh leh ei dinmun tawh kituak lopi a nuntak sawm lo ding leh, mi lakah maizumna a zang lo a, nasep kuhkalna a zang dingin hilh kisam hi.

3. Nu leh pate lametna lian lua (high perental expectation) : Nu leh pa pawlkhat in a tate tungah lametna nei lian lua uh ahih manin a tate un siat lawh hi. Mihing siatna tampi lakah hi pen kihel hi. Tate hih theih leh lungsimin a zawh, amau kingapna ngaihsutpih lo a, tua bangin omin, tua sinin, tua semin, tua laiah ..... ciin nu leh pa pawlkhat in amau hoihsak leh lunggulh teng a tate uh hihsak sawm thei uh hi. Mi khat pen a lunglut lam leh a siamna lam ngaihsun loin a nu leh pa in engineer hi dingin deih uh hi. A pate thu mangin haksa sa pipi in engineer sinin sangah kah a, a sangkah/laisim cimtak lua, zo lo kisa lua mahmah ahih manin a sinlai a zawh main amah leh amah kithat hi. A lawmpa in bel sinzo sam hi. Ahih hangin a laisim a zawh ciangin ama lunglut lam manzaih (photographer) nna mah sem ahih manin a engineer sin pen bangmah a khiatna om lo hi.

4. Veng le paam hoih lo (bad neighbourhood) : I mit a i muh leh i bil a i zak mun/nawhte in i ngaihsutna-ah lianpi in nna sem hi. Mihing ginat leh ginatloh pen kim le pam, veng le pamte hang zong hi thei hi. Zu khamkham a kimuhdenna munah teeng leng naupangte in zukham pen mihing ngeina peuh sa thei ding uh a, zatui kisunte a kimuhden theihna munah teeng leng zatui kisut lauhhuaina naupangte in thei lo ding hi. Tua ahih manin teen nading mun teel siam pen naupangte mailum hun dingin kisam mahmah hi.

5. Kineu ngaihsutna (inferiority complex) : Zomite lungsim sunga a lian mahmah khat pen ei le ei kineu ngaihsutna, mi hih theih hih thei lo dinga kingaihsutna om ahi hi. Zomi ulian khat in, “Kei bel kumpite in hong deihsak mana hih ka dinmuna a om ka hi kei a, ka hihna (siamna, theihna, service etc) in cit mana om thei ka hi hi” ci hi, ciin gen ngei uh hi. Mi van a gu maimai ding khawng bek a kingaihsun lo a, nu leh pate in tate lungsimah cihtakna, kuhkalna, thuakzawhna leh picinna tuh kisam hi. Naupangte lungsimah kimuanna (self confidence) a neih theih nadingin amau hih theih ding nna vaihawmsak a, sepsak hoih hi. Amah leh amah a kimuangngam lo mite in kuamah muangngam lo hi.

6. Naak ukcip lua (over restricted) : Naupan laia ki-ukcip luate a picin uh, ahih kei leh amau thu a hong om uh ciangin nuntak siam lo uh hi. Nu leh pa pawlkhat in inn sungah a tate nopsakna lam leh a sep utte khempeuh khamcip thei uh a, tua bang mite mun dang, a nu leh pate kiang loah a om ciangin omdan siam lo uh hi. High school leh higer secondary pawlkhatah sangsiate strict lua mahmah uh a, tua pana sangnaupangte hong passed khiat uh a, college hong zop uh ciangin college life nuam sa lua uh ahih manin laisim ding zong ngaihsun lo thei uh hi.

7. Khahzau lua (never restricted) : Hun-awl hau lua leh sepding nei lo a naupang a om uh leh siatna tawh kizom nuam mahmah hi. Vak haat lua, khua laka tam luate in gamtat siatna tuamtuam bawl baih mahmah hi. Nu leh pate in tate vakna leh a paina lam uh theihpihin, kithuahpih tam kisam hi. Kua tawh kikhawl a, a vakhiat ciang bang sem a, koi munah pai zel hiam cih pen nu leh pate in theihpih kisam hi.

Mihingte, i nu’ pum sung panin i piankhiat cilin i sia le pha theihna kibang kim hi. Tua i suahkhiat a kipanin i nu leh pate hong kepdan leh makaihdan tawh kizuiin a hoih deuh leh a sia deuh, a thumang leh a thumang lo deuh, a thuman leh a thuman lo deuh, a migi leh a migi lo cih bang ki-om hi. Kimakaih zawh mana kihoihkim ahihloh hangin, mi tamzawte siatna pen kimakaihna maanloh man, ahih kei leh kimakaihloh man ahi hi.

~ T. Sawm Lian, Daihna Cabin 22/3/12