Itna taktak in ngakzo (True Love Waits)

Leitung mihingte a si ding kimlai 'itna' hangin tawntung nuntakna kingahkik thei a, tua itna pen thupi mahmah hi. Tua ahih manin Lai Siangtho in 'itna' pen leitung mite ading thulianpenin gen a (I Kor. 14:13), Pasian pen itna hong piankhiatna, tua manin eite khat le khat ki-it ding leh, Itna a nei mi peuhmah Pasian tate ahihna leh Pasian a theite ahihna thu (I Johan 4:7-8) na gen hi. Ahih hangin i ki-itna leh ki-itdante ki-etphat kul hi. A diakin nungak leh tangvalte ki-itdan pen a taktak ki-itna ahi hiam? A taktak itna bang hi hamn cih ngaihsuthuai hi.

Rev. Go Khen Thang in, 'Lawmngaihna le Innkuan' cih laibu sungah, "Khapi a langkhat tangin, a lang a mial bangin, lungsim pen seel ding om a, a kisapna munah lah ding om hi. Na lawmngaih tungah na lungsim khempeuh pia inla, na pumpi pia kei in. Nung ciangin na piak ding om nawn lo kha thei hi. Pumpi kikep siamna in Pasian deihna hi a, i nuntakna adingin zong a thupi mahmah hi," ci hi.

I. Itna tawh ngakzawh a kisapna:

Tu hun leitung in a buapih mahmah - nupa kikhenna, damsak nading om lo natna lauhuai HIV/AIDS leh naupai lai kiatsak (abortion) a tunna hang tuamtuamte laka a awlmawhhuaipen 'nu le pa(sex) thangtatna' ahi hi. Bang hang hiam cih leh, zi le pasal neih ma-a nu le pa (sex) zatna hangin kiten khit ciangin nupa sung nuam lo a, kimuangmawh-den, ahih kei leh ki-muangzo nawn lo cih bang piang thei hi. Dean Busby, Bringham Young University a School of Family Life a professor a sem in mi tuamtuam 2035te lakah zi le pasal vai a kancianna panin, kitenma a nu le pa (sex) a zang lote sangin a zangte lakah nupa kikhenna tamzaw hi, cih mukhia hi. Kiten ma-a nu le pa zatna in nakpi'n nupa hih khit ciangin nupa nuntakna siasak hi, cih kimu thei hi. Itna taktaka aneite in tua nuntakna a siasak ding nate lak pan kikem zo uh hi.

Tulai khangno nungak tangvalte lakah, nu le pa (sex) pen ki-itna taktak a sa kha mi tampi om hi. I thulu mah bangin, Itna taktak in ngak a, ngakzo hi. Itna taktak a neite zi le pasal a kiten ma-in kikem siangtho-in, kiten hun ngak zo hi. Tulai i nuntakna-ah ngaklah luatna hanga a kisui, a muktu, a thokik zo nawn lo tampi kimu hi. I nuntakna a nop nading, i cidam nading leh innkuan nuam i bawl theih nadingin ngakzawhna kisam mahmah hi.

Leitungah HIV/AIDS tam penpenna a kituat ciangin Churachandpur district, Champhai Distrcit leh Kalay Valleyte hi, kici hi. Thu dik ahih leh hihloh a statistic ka muhloh hangin, a maan ding ka um lel hi. Tua bang ahih leh Zomite mailam hun pen ngaihsuthuai mahmah hi mai lo maw? I minam kalsuanzia ding nakpi'n ngaihsut kisam ta hi. A diakin khangnote lakah itna man leh a taktak itna amuh theih nading uh pen kisinsak, kihilh, kitheisak kisam mahmah ta hi.

II. Mite in bangci panlak? :

Sanggam Nagate in pan nak lak mahmah uh a, Nagaland state sunga tuiphum pawlpite kipawlkhopna Nagaland Baptist Churches Council (NBCC) nuaiah 'True Love Waits' cih thulu siksanin nasep lianpi kum 2005 pan kipan khin uh hi. Tua-in, khangnote lakah nu le pa thangtatna hoihlohzia, nuntak a nuamsak lo leh sihna dong a tun thei ahih manin tua pan kikep bit nading kisinsak uh a, kiciamna zong a utte adingin bawl uh hi. Tua ah :

True Love Waits

Believing that true love waits, I make a commitment to God, myself, my family, my friends, my future mate and my future children to be sexually abstinent from this day until the day I enter a Biblical marriage relationship.

Date ………… Sign ……………

ciin kiciamna bawl uh hi.

Baptist Church of Mizoramte in 2010 kumin Lunglei khua-a Saikuti Hall-ah Zotlang TKP saina tawh kikhopna / biakpiakna khat nei uh a, tua munah zi le pasal neih ma-a nu le pa (sex) zat a hoihlohna leh nu le pa thangtatna hanga mimal, innkuan, khua, gam leh minam a siat theihna thu, leh Pasian deihloh ahihna thu nakpi'n genna nei uh a, tua hunah nu le pa thangtat lo dinga kiciamna bawlin, a kiciamte in "Thianghlimna Zungbun" kici zungbuh bulh uh hi. Tua huna kikhawm khangno, zi le pasal nei nai lo mi 500 val bangin kiciamna nei uh hi.

III. Eite'n e le? :

Zomite sungah 'Itna taktak' tawh kisai a kigen leh kigelh tam om het lo hi. Awlmawh hun ta hi. Biakna pawlpite mahin a sai kei leh, hih lam tawh kisai a sem om lo mawk ahih manin Pawlpi sunga - Upa, numei, khangno makai leh hunbit nasemte' mawhpuakna lian mahmah hi. 

Biakna pawlpi tuamtuamte in khangno khawmpi ahih kei leh, kimuhkhopna khatpeuh a kineih hun (gtn. Sports, music festival, leadership training etc) ciangin hih nu le pa (sex) tawh kisai leh, nungak tangvalna tawh kisai, itna maan leh dik khangnote in a theihtheih nading kisinsakna lam om-in, tua muna kihelte (a utte) adingin kiciamna bawlin hi leng a hoih ding ka lamen hi.

Pawlkhatte in, tua bangin ci leng, kuamah a kiciam nuam om kei leh maizumhuai lua ding hi, ci uh hi. Tua bangin kibawlin, kuamah a kiciam nop kei leh i hihna taktak a kilangkhia hi a, makaite leh nu leh pate in sep ding hau semsem, sep ding tak a lakkhia hi zaw ding hi. I hihna taktak hong kilang leh tua pan i dinmun kitelcian ding a, nasep ding dan leh sep a kulna lam kitheithei-in ki-awlmawh zaw ding hi.

IV. Kiciamna a hoihna leh kisapnate :

Khangnote lakah itna taktakin ngakzo hi, cih a theihna uh panin zi le pasal neih ma-a nu le pa (sex) zang lo ding leh siangtho nuntak a nungta dingin kiciamna nei uh leh, a hoihna leh a kisapnate en leng:

1. Pasian in mihingte a siangtho leh a diktat dingin hong deih hi.
2. Tulai leitung pilna siamna - mobile phone, internet leh a tuamtuam pana i muh leh zakte hanga siatna bawl ding kilunggulh thei a, tuate pan i kikep zawh nadingin kisam hi.
3. Leitunga natna lauhuai leh damkik nading zatui a om lo - HIV/AIDS in i innsung leh kim le pam hong tung ta a, tua a kingahna tam pen nu le pa thangtatna pan kikepbit theih nading.
4. Tulai thuthak i zak a mulkimhuai mahmah nau kiatsakna (abortion) a tawm nading.
5. Numei buan (rape) tamloh nading.
6. Nupa kikhenna leh nupa kithutuak-lohna tampen ngakzawhloh man hi a, tu huna nungak tangvalte in zi le pasal a neih uh ciangin innkuan nuam a bawl theih nading.
7. High School, Secondary School leh College-ah nu le pa thangtatna tam mahmah a, tua bang mite in a hoihlohna a theih nading.
8. Lungsim ngaihsutna siangtho khangthak te'n a neihkik theih nading.
9. Leitung nuntakna leh pawlpi sung makaihna-ah mai-ngal takin khangnote a kihel theih nading.
10. Khangnote in zi le pasal a neih uh a, tu le ta a neih uh ciangin itna maan, itna taktak a hilh theih nading leh tu le tate ettehtak-a a nuntak theih na’ng.

V. Tua a kiamciamte tungtawnin :

1. Khangthakte in zi le pasal neih ma-a siangtho taka kikep a kulzia leh a manphatna hong phawk ding uh hi.
2. Nu le pa thangtatna hanga kingah natna lauhuai tuamtuamte tawh kipelh ding hi.
3. Siangtho nuntakna pen i nuntakna-ah hong lian ding a, mimal nuntakna, innkuan, khua, gam hong nuam ding a, vangam malep lei-ah kiciamkhol ding hi.
4. Nungak tangvalte lakah kimuanna leh ki-itna taktak hong om ding a, siangtho tak leh lungnuam takin kikhawlkhawm thei ding uh hi.
5. Tua banga kiciamna a nei mite in a lawmte kiangah a manphatzia hilh thei ding uh hi.
6. School leh college a nu le pa thangtatna hanga school / college huanga thanghuaina hong tawm ding hi.
7. Pawlpi sungah khangnote mai-ngal takin kizang thei ding uh a, Pawlpi nuam ding hi.

VI. Tu hun pen i mailam hun hi :

A taktaka panlak a, sep kisam ta hi. I gensa mah bangin Zomi tamzawte tenna gamte pen leitungah a penpen-a hihna hoih het lo tawh kidiah mawk hi hang. Bang hang a HIV/AIDS tam hiam cih leh, bangci bangin tawmsak ding cih ngaihsut kisam hi. I thei bangin HIV/AIDS natna a ngah tamzaw (2/3) pen numei pasal thangtatna, zi le pasal tungah muanhuailohna leh kikep siamloh man ahi hi. Tua zomah Zatui zangkhial (drugs abuse)te ahi hi. Kamsiatna hangin a ngah a om tei hangin tam het lo hi. Tua ahih ciangin i nuntakna i ki-etphat mahmah kei leh maban hoih het lo hi.

Tu hun ciangin gil sunga nau siatsak (abortion) tam mahmah a, dainawl khawngah naungek kipai muh ding om zel hi. Tua banah, nupa kikhenna hanga naupang tagah, a kem a khoi om lo, leh khualaka vak maimai muh ding tam mahmah hi. Kamsiat mana nu leh pa in mual a liamsan, loh theihloh a tagah kepna mun-a a om mi bangzah hiam om a, ahih hang tua bang ahi lo, nu leh pate' nungak tangval laia gamtat hoihlohna hanga tate zong a kem thei lo leh nuntak a siasuak mite' tate bangzah hiam om uh hi. Mulkimhuai lua mahmah hi. 

Khangnote lakah tu hun a i hunzatna in bangci bangin i mai lam nuntakna hoihsakin siasak thei hiam, cih ngaihsut kisam hi. I nuntakna bangin i tate hong nungta leh i deih diam? Ngaihsutna tampi tawh mailam huna i kisikkik nading bawl kidophuai mahmah hi. Ei hih bang teekteekin eimah tungah mi-in hong bawl thei uh a, ei gamtat bang teekteekin i tu i tate hong gamta thei uh hi. Tu hunin i minam natna lianpi tawh kidiah a, damsak nading i ngaihsut kisam hi. I damsak zawh kei leh i maban hoih het lo ding hi.

Thukhupna

Pasian in bang hangin Sodom leh Gomorrah khua susia a, Noah hun laiin tuicin tungsak hiam, cih ngaihsun kik ni. Nu le pa mawhna hanga kingah natna leh buaina tuamtuamin innkuan, pawlpi, gam leh minam sung hong tendenin hong susia taktak ta hi. Kua sep ding leh kua bawl ding peng-in ngaihsun lo a, mi kim in ngaihsut leh vei kul ta hi. Pasian nasem, nu leh pa leh pilna sang pipi a nei mite in hih lam tawh kisai khangthakte lakah hilhcian a, eima deihtelna tawh a kingah natna lauhuaite a ngah lo ding, nuntak a siasak thei tuamtuamte tawh kipelh nading, leh siangtho nuntakna tawh Pasian zahtak kawma a nuntak theih nading lampi ngaihsut kisam a, genkhiat kisam ta hi. Tua bangin i sep leh Pasian in hong ompih ding a, i innkuan, i gam, i minam hong damsak ding hi. Nidanga na gamtatna sate hangin na lungsim neusak kei in, kibawlphat nading leh na hoih sep nadi’n tu hun hun hoih ahi hi.

30/5/2011